Talk:Demisexuality/@comment-208.104.198.97-20200611011947

People often say "oh yeah, that's common. I like to know a person before I date them"

It's hard to get people to understand that there is literally NO attraction until we are like really good friends.

I remember, when I was really young, my friends asking me who I had a crush on. I said no one and they didn't beilieve me. They said I HAD to have a crush on someone!

I remember thinking "I have to have a crush on someone???"

There are some people I find aesthetically pleasing to look at but I find no one attractive until I know them.